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Putting Down Your Phone to Pray

For a lot of us, the phone is the first thing we touch in the morning and the last thing we put down at night. That is usually where prayer was supposed to go. Plenty of Christians want to pray and have every intention of starting the day with God, and then the alarm goes off, the screen lights up, and twenty minutes later they are standing in the kitchen having read the news, three messages and a stranger’s opinion about something, and they still haven’t said a word to the Lord.

If that sounds familiar, this article isn’t here to scold you. Many people now spend hours a day on their phones, and a good share of that time goes to good and necessary things. But it is worth looking honestly at what the phone does to the two quiet edges of the day, and what you can do about it.

How the phone gets there first

In the morning, the trouble usually starts with the alarm. If your phone wakes you up, it is already in your hand before you are fully awake, and every app on it is one tap away. Notifications pile up overnight. It feels efficient to check them “just for a second,” and before you know it your mind is full of other people’s demands and worries. When you finally sit down to pray, you are already distracted.

At night it happens in reverse. You get into bed meaning to pray, but you check one thing first. The scrolling goes on until your eyes are heavy, and the prayer becomes a mumbled sentence or doesn’t happen at all. Many apps are built to keep you looking for as long as possible, and when one of them is on the nightstand, it usually wins.

None of this makes the phone evil. It lets you call people you love, read the Bible anywhere, and look up a verse in seconds. It just tends to get the first and last word of the day, and those were the words you meant to give to God.

What Scripture says about attention and rest

The Bible doesn’t mention phones, but it has a great deal to say about where we put our attention. Mark records a morning in Jesus’ life during a very busy stretch in Capernaum:

Early in the morning, while it was still dark, Jesus got up and went out to a solitary place to pray.

Mark 1:35

It didn’t last long. Simon and the others went looking for Him, and when they found Him they said, “Everyone is looking for You!” (Mark 1:37). People were reaching for Jesus’ attention long before anyone had a phone. He still made room to be alone with His Father first.

When He taught His disciples about prayer, Jesus spoke about a closed door.

But when you pray, go into your inner room, shut your door, and pray to your Father, who is unseen. And your Father, who sees what is done in secret, will reward you.

Matthew 6:6

A phone in your pocket can be a door left open. You may be alone in the room, but the whole world can still get in.

Other passages speak to the same thing. Psalm 46:10 says, “Be still and know that I am God.” Paul tells the Colossians, “Set your minds on things above, not on earthly things” (Colossians 3:2), and he gives the Philippians a list of what to think about:

Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things.

Philippians 4:8 (KJV)

That is a good filter to hold up against the last half hour before bed. Some of what we read in that time meets it, and a lot of it doesn’t.

Small changes that help

A few practical changes do most of the work here.

Replacing the reflex with a prayer

Even with these changes, you will catch your hand reaching for the phone out of habit. You might be waiting in line or lying awake, or just bored. Try using that moment. Before you unlock the screen, pray one sentence. It can be as short as “Lord, I’m here,” or you can pray a verse back to God. This one fits well:

Turn my eyes away from worthless things; revive me with Your word.

Psalm 119:37

Over time the reach for the phone can become a cue to turn toward God. Sometimes you will still pick it up afterward, and that is fine. What changes is that the first thing you did was pray.

If worry is what keeps you scrolling at night, it may help to bring that worry to God directly. Bible verses for anxiety collects passages that many people pray when they can’t settle down.

Grace when you slip

You will have mornings when you grab the phone before your feet hit the floor, and nights when you scroll until midnight. When that happens, don’t treat prayer as a test you just failed. In the garden of Gethsemane, Jesus asked His closest friends to keep watch with Him, and they fell asleep. He said, “The spirit is willing, but the body is weak” (Matthew 26:41), and He didn’t send them away.

Tell God what happened, ask for His help, and start again the next morning.

Because of the loving devotion of the LORD we are not consumed, for His mercies never fail. They are new every morning; great is Your faithfulness!

Lamentations 3:22-23

Amen Clock can keep the apps you choose locked in the evening until you have listened to a short verse and prayer and tapped Amen.

Scripture quotations are from the Berean Standard Bible (BSB), which is in the public domain, and the King James Version (KJV).

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